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According to Beijing on 977 large and medium-sized cities in 1279 and the other person's analysis of the survey, the current Chinese wife in common misunderstanding of the concept of three. "Dedication" misunderstanding First of all, this performance for their physical structure, function and response to the lack of sufficient knowledge and understanding. In recent years, with women's health and family planning work of the popularity of his wife for contraception, pregnancy and women's knowledge of the disease than in the past to increase a lot, but because of traditions and customs restrictions, there are still more than half of the women's wife did not know the most sensitive and What is the position, 40% do not know if his wife or female orgasm can not tell what the performance. This is because knowledge is difficult to obtain it? Is not. On the one hand, many people still believe that "no woman before (knowledge) is Germany", for fear that women with knowledge, it will become the "troubles", a "slut"; On the other hand, although the middle-aged married about When women do not talk in private sex life, but most of her comments, it was rarely talked about active learning of knowledge, scientific knowledge can be spread to filter information in private (mostly error) of the women is even rarer . Why are not they need to learn? One of the main reasons is that many of the wife that her husband should run - since I have already fulfilled its "dedication" of the obligation in respect of his task and the responsibility to promote harmony, in case there are problems , Nothing to do with me. Some of the wife simply said: "This kind of thing, run entirely a good husband." There's rise to the theory: "The fundamental issue is transforming men." This simple, "dedication" of the concept, at least a few possible negative results: (1) met her husband and even brutal sexual abuse, wife of the lack of momentum for a boycott of the heart, and promote a lack of knowledge and change their ways. (2) appear not to the general harmonious sexual life, his wife too much too easy to blame her husband, but aggravate the conflict. (3) Even if the life of a smooth, simple, "dedication" of his wife is also difficult to appreciate the value and fun, but will in fact have a cold and distant. This is also exacerbated by the natural feelings of poor and eventually a vicious circle. (4), even if relatively harmonious, the wife may also be a lack of continuous improvement to raise the driving force in the long run easily on both sides of the mental fatigue. "Image" misunderstanding The most common is the wife did not consciously trying to show "serious" or "decent." Traditional morality that women are "dignified." A "swing" would destroy a woman's life. In fact, this means the women had sexual relations should comply with social norms, but Feng Jianxing and false imprisonment under the influence, many people mistake it extended to spouses of life. It seems that specific acts of expression and sexual response, the wife should not be "ring-down" or "crazy", or is "for the purpose of prostitution." Many of their wives have their own requirements of shame or modesty, feel that they are offered to the general requirements of "cheap" or "show" and even feel this way, "like a prostitute." It also seems to be in the early wedding is not a problem. However, with the sex life into the normal, if his wife too much attention to the "image" and often can not be scientifically possible to correct the two sides are "errors." The results are complaining about each other's heart, would just Yuenao Yue large. Overly concerned about their image and self-negation is easy, easy Cuoguai the other side. In addition, one of the most direct, the most common adverse effects - distracted attention from their own, in their review of the official or spectator position, deliberately, just to do some self-considered It should be. As a result, not only could not feel his sex life with her husband's love, is also an objective to have a dampening each other with disappointment. High expectations of errors The existence of such a misunderstanding of the nature of life in a positive wife, their sex life on the role of the expectations, mainly in the following areas. ☆ wife did not understand some of the men of physical and psychological characteristics of men think that at any time and under no circumstances will inevitably have an urgent initiative. Thus in each other's physical and mental fatigue, or their failure to give sufficient visual and mental stimulation, their husbands do not want to think sex is not their own kind, love is to play down or even "unfaithful intentions." ☆ some of his sex life of emotional exchange with a very high demand, but did not dare to or are not good at communication and expression, the result could not have their own troubles, and her husband also have been speaking Greek. Even more so that his wife did not understand her own heart, and is likely to last as the key link "is not really in love" and "men do not understand love." ☆ wife some of the good life and marriage in the daily life of the distinction between, did not understand the difference between the two. Husband of a good life, his wife mistakenly thought he was definitely in all aspects of daily life are a model husband. Minor differences in this respect would complain about his wife: "Mi Yi went to the bed where the tenderness?" May even wonder: "So you just love that thing!" On some key link for the theory: "Sex is a deception Woman. " ☆ a small number of women do not use sex to punish her husband's fault. Some over-obsessed with his wife innocent romantic love, sex marriage feel that it is detrimental.

In recent years, some of the husband, after watching pornographic videos on request to try the same with his wife, made his wife very much. In particular, some husbands, in a pornographic video to see this kind of anal intercourse sexual behavior, whether his wife can not accept, it is necessary to live in the couple of years to implement. The results are very sad wife, the women had to resort to the hotline, or even to complain to the Women's Federation. Such a case, we by no means a small Chinese, many Chinese people know. However, in July 1996, my 11th World AIDS Conference (held in Vancouver, Canada), referred to this sort of thing, but the audience laughter of the audience. At that time, I really was a stupid laugh. I can not imagine what it's ridiculous. I made a statement after the End, who asked to look quickly. Q 5 individual, I finally understand: It turned out that the representatives of the developed countries do not believe now how there will be people who Zhe Mesha! How people will learn from the sex video? ! A representative of just bluntly told me: "you are either lying or you say that the Chinese people too stupid!" In fact, they have also been stupid, but now the smart school. In their countries, the yellow video has been such a thing existed for 30 years. A generation that is surrounded by the things growing up. The results of a blessing in disguise, almost everyone knows from an early age: Wan Yi is the only entertainment products, is not a textbook; simply to stimulate you to stimulate it, simply out of the question of knowledge; just hand out business in your pocket, it What is not sex education. In such a cultural atmosphere, of course, they do not believe that I am talking about things, of course, laughter, of course, I would suspect is lying. Unfortunately, our compatriots, who have seen a lot of pornographic videos, pornographic VCD is now pandemic, but how many people know how to do it? Although the ongoing "anti-vice," but we can not deny that there are still many who look at pornographic videos. In that case, in addition to the "anti-vice", we can not do that again, what else do? In the final analysis, for adults (adults only), "yellow" danger is that it is not in itself, but people should know what kind of look at it. Otherwise, many doctors see real live organ, I am afraid, than the "raw footage" to "yellow" much more; why these doctors will not be poisoned by it? Is that doctors should know what kind of attitude. Any attempt to learn from the sex video sex adults should think about this: After reading your martial arts film, would also like martial arts movies, jump from the upper layers of it? Obviously not, as you know, the film is the film "liar movie," all the things inside are false and are aimed at entertainment, is to stimulate you to stimulate the end. In that case, why should your video school sex with them? If you really can not look at non-, then look like martial arts films look at it as: At that time, stimulate, after just forget, never imitate. If you really want to learn knowledge, then we Chinese have sex, why should non-wronged their own money into the initiative of the pockets of unscrupulous traders do? They will not even say thank you that the only face-off back to your silly laugh!

Youaiyoupa contraceptives you do? Enjoy the security, because you own the use of contraceptives and deeply worried about? What it does not have side effects? How should you use it the right way? A misunderstanding of contraceptives would increase the chance of cancer In fact, oral contraceptives may provide additional protection, so that you can resist against cancer. There are a lot of research shows that women taking the pill after a year, the rate of cervical cancer were reduced by half; and taking over more than a year, you can make to reduce risk of ovarian cancer 40%; Taiwan, according to a recent statistics show Women taking contraceptives after 10 years, the rate of breast cancer was not and never higher than women taking the drug. Cervical cancer mainly by the sexually transmitted human papilloma virus, which caused no contraceptives isolation, and the use of female contraceptives are generally more active sex life, that belongs to the high-risk people infected with the disease, so easily on the Contraceptives misleading. Contraceptive would misunderstood two people to get fat Medical reports indicate that regular use of the female contraceptive pill and almost no women, no increase or decrease their body weight difference. Female weight gain, in addition to age, and other physiological reasons, mainly due to the diet, sleeping habits, and so on and so on, as well as the spirit of the reasons for concern. Third, reduce misunderstanding contraceptive sex "Once on the Elimination of the fear of pregnancy, most women will really be able to enjoy more of the fun." A well-known doctor said. In fact, to take contraceptive drugs and other ways, there is no difference, it is different there are some differences between the pill, some women with hormone-cycle contraceptives can increase sexual desire. Four misunderstanding contraceptives increase the risk of stroke World Health Association in August 1996 in a report that the cardiovascular disease and whether or not there is no relationship between the use of contraceptives. And in July 1996, "the new British medical news," the study also reached the same conclusion. In the past two years have not seen any of the above findings refute the views. Five misunderstanding in the 35-year-old you should stop taking it when contraceptives In fact, a healthy non-smoking women, she can take up until menopause. Because the research indicates that the use of low-dose oral contraceptives in women, and not of the same age than the female pill did not have more health problems. Some doctors even suggested that his patient, 40-year-old at the time to start taking contraceptives to support the treatment of irregular menstruation and menopause syndrome. Six of contraceptives will reduce misunderstandings in the future chance of pregnancy A general view is that, even if you stop the medication, it would take months or even longer to restore hormone cycle, that is, reducing the chance of pregnancy. This view is not correct, in fact, when the medication stops, will soon return to normal fertility, which do not use contraceptives and do not have any differences. Contraceptive would misunderstood seven emotional deterioration Although contraceptives in the past with high estrogen, has always been regarded as allergies and sentiment caused by low culprit, but the new improvements in the contraceptive hormones should not lead to unstable conditions. From the clinical point of view, some women are prescribed in the use of contraceptives, the emergence of premenstrual syndrome, in fact, this is the hormone the body is adjusting. Misunderstanding of Health had eight children would not be appropriate after pill This is a mistake to generalize, many hybrid contraceptives that there may dry up breast-feeding, types of contraceptives not only progesterone.

Since reform and opening up knowledge of life has been more widespread popularity, sexuality skills in areas such as articles or books can be seen everywhere, from the ignorance of liberating the people greedily absorb the nutrients in this regard so that the family life of husband and wife With the quality has greatly improved and improved but at the same time there have been some kind of polarized, as a result of too strong with the purpose and nature of the phenomenon of discord emerged, some couples at a loss into a misunderstanding of the nature of the exchange Instead, the impact of further improve the quality of life. Therefore, it is necessary to remind the people under siege, pay attention to the ways and means of communication, and other extreme bias into the red. First, look at the time of the exchange depends on the occasion. Some couples should understand the nature of the exchange in the ongoing exchange of views and feelings, but affected the normal , is the enjoyment of pleasure, the companion issue of what to make good emotional disruption, especially men will be more , And disappointing end. There's the husband or wife is not the time to see places, eating meals or doing housework when to speak exploratory, so that is something else to do partner unacceptable, offensive Dunsheng, doing bad things with good. Second, the exchange of content can not be endless. The relationship between men and women to maintain a certain degree of passion, to rely on one of the factors is Ruoyouruowu mystery, and the degree of access to education, as well as the long-standing inherent in the concept, some of the issues are not a good question to answer, or Is not good words, the speech should also pay attention to stop before going too far between. Third, exchanges should not involve the issue of privacy. Of life is selfish and should not be asked whether the partner had other sexual partners or a partner to tell of life and so difficult to clear the degree of contrast, husband and wife should treat each other in good faith, but it can also have a certain amount of privacy, especially Do not ask about some of the experiences of the past, both sides say it will not taste. Fourth, not expansion of the exchange. ** Should be the husband and wife own affairs, should not have the details of married life will tell their parents or even a best friend, or else what happens, the expansion of the private life of a husband and wife, the partner will not forgive each other. There is no order to experience sexual feelings and the search for extra-marital sexual partners. Fifth, the exchange of words is not necessarily an absolute must. Husband and wife live year round, and their own lives to adapt to each other's well-being, sometimes a little change will cause the other party or in response to the opposition, body language has been shown to agree to upgrade their skills and so on, there will always be here to win a silent sound , The wonderful mood, as long as husband and wife can feel good about. Sixth, we should not fall into the size-fits-all exchange of the conventional. Nothing is more trouble for a long time and repulsive and, if each partner in the asked the same question, the answer is not interested in the people is bound to ask those who may not be from the heart, but will give birth to this feeling impatient Of course, will affect the harmony. From the closed-out people, it is easy to open in the situation to the other extreme, it is necessary to remind people seeking a better life, should not have entered the exchange of errors.

The truth is that we don't completely understand why people, or animals for that matter, yawn.
　　It's widely assumed that yawning occurs because we are tired or bored or because we see someone else doing it, but there isn't any hard evidence to support these beliefs.
　　Scientists do not purport to know all of the biological mechanisms of the yawn, but tend to agree that a yawn is an involuntary respiratory reflex, which regulates the carbon dioxide and oxygen levels in the blood.
　　Technically, a yawn is the reflex opening of the mouth followed by the deep inhalation and slow exhalation of oxygen.
　　The very act of yawning is but one of a number of involuntary reflexes controlled by the spinal and nerve centers.
　　Scientists speculate that the onset of a yawn is triggered either by fatigue, or by sheer boredom as, at those times, breathing is shallow, and little oxygen is carried to the lungs by the oxygen-toting cardiovascular system.
　　When one yawns, his or her alertness is heightened, as the sudden intake of oxygen increases the heart rate, rids the lungs and the bloodstream of the carbon dioxide buildup, and forces oxygen through blood vessels in the brain, while restoring normal breathing and ventilating the lungs.
　　This quite plausible theory of yawning falls short of explaining many aspects of yawning. Scientists explain away the "contagious" nature of yawning, that is when one person's yawn triggers another nearby to yawn, as due to the power of suggestion, but are at a loss when attempting to explain why yawning occurs excessively in patients with lower brainstem damage or with multiple sclerosis.
　　Other unlocked mysteries include why fetuses in the womb yawn, when it is a well-known fact that they do not intake oxygen into their lungs until after live birth, or why individuals with high concentrations of oxygen in their blood streams yawn.
　　Until these questions are answered, do not assume that a person who yawns in your presence is bored with what you are saying, or suffers from exhaustion. Simply be pleased that he or she is not bored to death.

Women are more likely than men to keep joint possessions when getting divorced, according to research.
Men on average wanted their ex to keep 19 items from a list of 24 including the home, photographs and pets, while women wanted the men to get just eight.
While women did not particularly want items including the television, CDs, DVDs, and toaster, they were keen their ex-husband did not get them.
YouGov polled 3,515 people in May and June. The poll found men were keen for their ex to keep items including the bed, television, wedding album, lawnmower and garden accessories, house plants, coffee machine and the family pet.
One item that men were determined to keep for themselves was the house - 32% wanted it to keep it outright , compared with 30% who were happy to wholly hand it over to their ex-wife.
The men also wanted the car, the laptop computer, digital camera and CD and DVD collections.
Half of women wanted the family home outright, but even more - 64% - wanted the dog or cat.
They were happy for their former husband to keep the bed, sofa, lawnmower, coffee machine, laptop, digital camera, PlayStation and any wine and drinks they had.
Ultimately 46% of women did keep the house, compared with 29% of men, with other couples selling.
Denise Knowles, a counselor, said: "These findings reflect the hugely different emotional attachment that divorcing men and women feel towards their shared possessions.
"Men are far keener than women to put their past behind them and want to move on, which is why they are happy to let their ex keep almost all of their shared possessions - apart from those items that provide entertainment such as the car, digital camera and music system.
"Women, by contrast, have a far greater emotional attachment to their home and its contents, seeing these things as the fabric of their lives and things that should be preserved both for themselves and any children as symbols of their family history and life."

To greet the 2008 Olympic Games, three old men travelled 1,444 kilometres by bicycle from Baoji, Shaanxi Province, to Beijing, the Beijing Times reports.
　　The three travelled through three provinces over 12 days and finally reached their destination - Tian'anmen Square - to attend a flag-raising ceremony.
　　They spent a month planning the trip, including mapping out specific places they would pass and distances they would cover.
　　The trio, the oldest being 71, travelled more than 100 kilometres each day no matter whether it was rainy or windy.

High-speed rail links approved
　　(China Daily/chinadaily.com.cn)
　　Updated: 2006-03-14 05:40
　　A high-speed rail link between Beijing and Shanghai and a maglev line between Shanghai and neighbouring Hangzhou have been approved by the State Council, China's cabinet.
　　The Beijing-Shanghai railway will "use high speed wheel track technology," the National Development and Reform Commission (NDRC) the country's top planner said on its website yesterday.
　　A limited company will be established, which will be responsible for building and operating the 1,320-kilometre line; and private and foreign investments are welcome, the statement said.
　　However, there were no other information on the Shanghai-Hangzhou maglev line.
　　The feasibility studies for both projects are not complete so details such as when they will be started are not known.
　　The approval for the Beijing-Shanghai railway comes nine years after the Ministry of Railways submitted the proposal in 1997.
　　Though it was widely acknowledged that the project would significantly boost transport capacity and economic development, the debate over which technology should be used to build the rail delayed the project.
　　Now, the NDRC statement said, various parties have finally reached a consensus on significant issues including the technology solution. "The time is ripe for construction."
　　Designed for speeds of 300 kilometres per hour, with the maximum at 350 kilometres per hour, the railway is expected to shorten travel time between the two cities from 13 hours to less than 5.
　　Minister of Railways Liu Zhijun told China Daily last week that the 200-billion-yuan (US$24.7 billion) project would be fully based on "our own technology."
　　The maglev line between Shanghai and Hangzhou has also been under study for nearly a decade.
　　The construction of the rail is expected to start at the end of the year, said Sheng Changli, vice-governor of Zhejiang Province March 5.
　　The new line costs 35 billion yuan (US$4.3 billion), and is expected to shorten travel time between the two cities to less than half an hour from up to 3 hours.
　　It is expected to go into operation before the 2010 World Expo in Shanghai, Xinhua News Agency reported.
　　The Shanghai-Hangzhou railway will in part use German technology, but the main technology comes from Chinese engineers, sources said.