LuckCong's Health Blog

According to Beijing on 977 large and medium-sized cities in 1279 and the other person's analysis of the survey, the current Chinese wife in common misunderstanding of the concept of three. "Dedication" misunderstanding First of all, this performance for their physical structure, function and response to the lack of sufficient knowledge and understanding. In recent years, with women's health and family planning work of the popularity of his wife for contraception, pregnancy and women's knowledge of the disease than in the past to increase a lot, but because of traditions and customs restrictions, there are still more than half of the women's wife did not know the most sensitive and What is the position, 40% do not know if his wife or female orgasm can not tell what the performance. This is because knowledge is difficult to obtain it? Is not. On the one hand, many people still believe that "no woman before (knowledge) is Germany", for fear that women with knowledge, it will become the "troubles", a "slut"; On the other hand, although the middle-aged married about When women do not talk in private sex life, but most of her comments, it was rarely talked about active learning of knowledge, scientific knowledge can be spread to filter information in private (mostly error) of the women is even rarer . Why are not they need to learn? One of the main reasons is that many of the wife that her husband should run - since I have already fulfilled its "dedication" of the obligation in respect of his task and the responsibility to promote harmony, in case there are problems , Nothing to do with me. Some of the wife simply said: "This kind of thing, run entirely a good husband." There's rise to the theory: "The fundamental issue is transforming men." This simple, "dedication" of the concept, at least a few possible negative results: (1) met her husband and even brutal sexual abuse, wife of the lack of momentum for a boycott of the heart, and promote a lack of knowledge and change their ways. (2) appear not to the general harmonious sexual life, his wife too much too easy to blame her husband, but aggravate the conflict. (3) Even if the life of a smooth, simple, "dedication" of his wife is also difficult to appreciate the value and fun, but will in fact have a cold and distant. This is also exacerbated by the natural feelings of poor and eventually a vicious circle. (4), even if relatively harmonious, the wife may also be a lack of continuous improvement to raise the driving force in the long run easily on both sides of the mental fatigue. "Image" misunderstanding The most common is the wife did not consciously trying to show "serious" or "decent." Traditional morality that women are "dignified." A "swing" would destroy a woman's life. In fact, this means the women had sexual relations should comply with social norms, but Feng Jianxing and false imprisonment under the influence, many people mistake it extended to spouses of life. It seems that specific acts of expression and sexual response, the wife should not be "ring-down" or "crazy", or is "for the purpose of prostitution." Many of their wives have their own requirements of shame or modesty, feel that they are offered to the general requirements of "cheap" or "show" and even feel this way, "like a prostitute." It also seems to be in the early wedding is not a problem. However, with the sex life into the normal, if his wife too much attention to the "image" and often can not be scientifically possible to correct the two sides are "errors." The results are complaining about each other's heart, would just Yuenao Yue large. Overly concerned about their image and self-negation is easy, easy Cuoguai the other side. In addition, one of the most direct, the most common adverse effects - distracted attention from their own, in their review of the official or spectator position, deliberately, just to do some self-considered It should be. As a result, not only could not feel his sex life with her husband's love, is also an objective to have a dampening each other with disappointment. High expectations of errors The existence of such a misunderstanding of the nature of life in a positive wife, their sex life on the role of the expectations, mainly in the following areas. ☆ wife did not understand some of the men of physical and psychological characteristics of men think that at any time and under no circumstances will inevitably have an urgent initiative. Thus in each other's physical and mental fatigue, or their failure to give sufficient visual and mental stimulation, their husbands do not want to think sex is not their own kind, love is to play down or even "unfaithful intentions." ☆ some of his sex life of emotional exchange with a very high demand, but did not dare to or are not good at communication and expression, the result could not have their own troubles, and her husband also have been speaking Greek. Even more so that his wife did not understand her own heart, and is likely to last as the key link "is not really in love" and "men do not understand love." ☆ wife some of the good life and marriage in the daily life of the distinction between, did not understand the difference between the two. Husband of a good life, his wife mistakenly thought he was definitely in all aspects of daily life are a model husband. Minor differences in this respect would complain about his wife: "Mi Yi went to the bed where the tenderness?" May even wonder: "So you just love that thing!" On some key link for the theory: "Sex is a deception Woman. " ☆ a small number of women do not use sex to punish her husband's fault. Some over-obsessed with his wife innocent romantic love, sex marriage feel that it is detrimental.